So far this year my decluttering efforts have been focused on the things I want to get rid of. All very necessary as there is so much that needs to go, but this month I'm having a bit of a change and will be looking at the special items I want to keep.
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X is always difficult to do isn't it! So, opting for the sound instead of the initial letter ... X is for eXpertise.
As with all couples we had certain jobs around the house that were ours; I took care of the shopping, ironing, sewing etc, and Ced was responsible for mowing the lawn, cleaning out the grate in the winter, putting out the bins etc. We both shared kitchen duties but one of the jobs that was exclusively his was to sharpen the knives, which he did regularly and usually when I was at work so I didn't ever see it being done.
Fast forward a few years to the diagnosis of his illness and the inevitable outcome, and from various conversations it was becoming clear that one of his biggest worries was how I'd manage when he was no longer with me ... particularly, how would I cope with doing all the little things that he'd always done such as bleeding the radiators, checking the pressure on the heating system, checking tyres and oil on the car, and ... sharpening the knives. It's not that he thought I wasn't capable but that he knew I didn't know how to do most of these things so the way forward, and to take away that anxiety, was for him to teach me. Some things were easy and I understood and took over responsibility for them straight away but I just couldn't get the hang of sharpening knives. It took me ages to grasp how to do it properly and it's the final practical thing he ever taught me.
I'm eternally grateful that, at such a difficult time for him as he tried to come to terms with a terminal illness, he found it possible to consider me and help me prepare for my future without him.